Are you tired of flattering someone too much?

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"Everyone likes compliments" - Abraham Lincoln

Have you ever had a talk with someone who is eager to flatter you as a hero? If the answer is YES, would you like to keep in touch with those guys? I guess it may be a tough question ever. Even I sometimes could not finger out which solution is the correct choice for me. However, from my experience, I would make it clear for you to acknowledge that there are some problems that we have to base on our emotions to handle them. I hope you enjoy my sharing below.

Now, let come back to the situation of ourselves. Again, another question for you: "Are you interested in flattering others thousand of times?" I means are you the type of person who always compliments others or decry people? As some recent research, flattery would support people more energy to increase productivity at work. Therefore, it is not wrong for you to flatter someone continuously. It depends on your choice and decision. You inspire others and get inspiration back. But there are many kinds of people surrounding us. We could not judge someone is a good guy or not at first glance. Due to the extraordinary power of compliments, lots of people out there are trying to convince us to work and follow them. They try to get benefits from us. We are even regarded as blind guys by these bad men. Gradually, we easily become silly to believe in them. Also, even we are in doubt with those guys, we could not stop ourselves from following their invitation.

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Are you afraid of being cheated by the strangers?

With me, I am nervous not only the strangers but also my closet relatives. But, if we are always wary people, when will we break out of the comfort zone to construct the changes. Below, I would let you know my secret about how to clarify who is the trustworthy people to communicate and interact with.

Become a kid will let you a chance to learn more - source: pixabay

Let me guess what happens next after my love readers reading the previous sentence! Would you scroll down quickly to discover that secret? And my secret is no secret. You could get a mistake if you think that I am cheating you. Honestly, communication to build long relationships is one of the hard lessons in life ever. People in modern society are diversity, and widening the relationship is the best way for us to meet the right guys. But how? let yourself open and communicate with surrounding people more, especially with strangers. It is vital for us to become a kid whilst interacting with them as children are people who tend to listen more than talk. They have tend to ignore what the adult talking to them is right or wrong, good or bad. What they do is to keep the focus on the talk. Sometimes, what people need simply is a gratitude from us. Also, listening is the best way for us to show our appreciation.

Finally, each person has their own story no matter they are good or bad ones. Only when you know how to apply my secret method above into your daily conversation, will you acknowledge that we sometimes could learn from others, but have no need to obey them. Moreover, only listening is not enough for us to increase the number of relationships. We need to practice critical thinking in the talks. Please make youself clear that you are tired of flattering your boss continuously. Even when he or she does something wrong with you or your colleges, you have to recognize all of those actions are right without any feedback to them. What terrible with the boss with no mistake and the company is full of followers only! Let yourself independent on others, you will become not only mature in thinking but also free in every aspect of life.

It's ok for you to be a follower, but not a blind one.